How to Be a Good Sportsmanship Role Model for Your Skater
Children learn behavior from many different people in their lives — coaches, teachers, family, peers — but the people they learn the most from are their parents and/or guardians. That’s why it’s critical that you be a good sportsmanship role model for your skater.
Being a good sport is much easier said than done — just look at some of the examples we see from professional and collegiate coaches and athletes. You must maintain a cool head and healthy attitude if you expect your skater to do the same.
Here are some ways to model appropriate attitudes and behaviors:
- Be positive about your child’s skating.
- Understand your child’s expectations.
- Help your child set realistic goals.
- Be realistic about your child’s ability.
- Don’t compare your child to another skater.
- Trust your coach — and let your coach do the coaching.
- Use honest and open communication with your coach.
- Control your emotions in frustrating situations.
- Keep negative thoughts to yourself.
- Do not gossip with or about other parents, coaches or skaters.
- Volunteer and assist at your rink facility or club.
- Don’t make skating everything in your skater’s life.
- Keep winning in perspective.
- Help your skater focus on skating well and having fun.
- Discipline when necessary.
- Don’t meddle from the sidelines.
- Respect and accept judges’ decisions.
- Encourage all skaters and congratulate other skaters when they win.
Established in 1959, the Ice Sports Industry (ISI) — creator of America’s first learn-to-skate curriculum — is an international trade association encompassing all aspects of the ice sports industry. Our goal is to promote ice skating as a participant sport and recreational activity for everyone — all ages and abilities. Learn more about the ISI Ice Skating Program.